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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 10, 2023

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That is not a way that anything can work.

Victorian-style purity standards applied to men, not women, certainly seems...interesting. Women are allowed to be sexual; men are expected to be chaste and virtuous. This would be an interesting thing indeed.

As soon as it was just barely socially possible to strip on camera for internet strangers without suffering perpetual banishment from polite middle class society, OnlyFans became a phenomenon.

Poor women, forced to strip for internet strangers by... who? Men don't go around telling women, "wow, you're so hot. You should totally start an OnlyFans so I can look at pictures of your hoo-ha for $10 a month". Nor do they go around claiming that it's liberating and all progressive young women that are sufficiently attractive should seize the day and sell pictures of their hoo-ha for $10 per viewer per month while it's still pretty.

Poor women, forced to strip for internet strangers by... who?

Not forced, probably. Though there are examples of women working where they have to pay a house fee to rent their internet connected performance stage / bedroom while their travel documents are held for 'safe keeping' by their landlord / manager / pimp. I'll happily concede this is not the majority.

There's been some coverage on Andrew Tate who we are told is lots of -ists, it remains to be seen what the outcome of his legal difficulties will be.

Leonid Radvinsky is the man behind onlyfans, though not it's founder, he made it much pornier than it had been initially. Arguably onlyfans has one of the more transparent ownership structures.

young women that are sufficiently attractive should seize the day and sell pictures of their hoo-ha for $10 per viewer per month while it's still pretty

It may not be 'men' promulgating this message, but it's a message that is being heard by a cohort of women. Along with the message that this isn't a degenerate choice and anyone shaming you for choosing totally non-degenerate 'sex work' is misogynist, culturally backwards, insufficiently sex-positive, controlling, etc.

Leonid Radvinsky is the man behind onlyfans, though not it's founder, he made it much pornier than it had been initially.

And ironically this is part of the feminist opposition to pornography: it's men who run it and make money out of it, even if women involved claim to be empowered and liberated and really love the work and it's sex positive and all the rest of it. There's a lot of young women scraping pennies with OnlyFans accounts who hope to become one of the few big success stories. Meanwhile, I'm guessing Mr. Radvinsky is not scraping pennies and has never had to flash his tatas to make money out of the platform.