gosouthyoungman
I moved to a developing country to escape the hostile, isolating culture of the US. Ask me how!
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gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
If I'm a young person and I control the money, why do I listen to my elders? Why don't I just run away and make a life for myself?
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
It's funny because netstack was basically saying "I believe the US will never blow up energy infrastructure" and "I don't believe in evidence from substack."
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
Why is Lex Fridman single?
(I apologize if this is brief for a top level post. I just want the community's take on it.)
I think it's not so much an event or experience that these women want to have. It's that the event proves something about the man, specifically that he is powerful.
So it's "I want to be taken by a powerful man, but I don't necessarily want to be hurt, or have a child, and I certainly don't want any social consequences." But there's a bit of a problem here, because the women wants the proof that the man is powerful and has power over her specifically, and so she needs either pain, her will violated, or some other consequence, to know that it is real.
I have done (100% consentual and by-the-rules) CNC play. If a girl fantasizes about rape, there is presumably some BDSM-type scenario that she would consent to, or would consent to in some alternate universe where there weren't e.g. social taboos, dangers to her health, etc.
This is completely unrelated to the question of how pushy a man should be when flirting. Making a woman briefly uncomfortable is not rape, and it's not immoral in my view. (I'm not endorsing the view that women secretly wanting rape => unlimited right to sexually harass them.)
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
Probably /r/ShitRedditSays
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
Americans act like sex is illegal under Federal law.
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
First of all, this stuff happens everywhere, not just work. Second of all, this is extremely humiliating to men but I guess we'll never be able to make you empathize with us, so I don't know what to say.
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
I've definitely gone all the way without ever hearing "no". (Sometimes it's "yes yes yes" all the time haha.)
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
As someone who has been raped, twice, and sexually harassed by men and women many times, I personally would rather live in a world where I get raped or harassed sometimes than a world where, like in America, I am not able to have a social life because everyone just sees me a dangerous creep.
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
If women don't want a doormat, why does western society work so hard at bullying us into being doormats?
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
I generally fantasize about things I want, yes.
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
Exactly how assertive do western women want us to be?
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
I have similar opinions due to personal experience. I don't know if sliders is correct about why western women behave this way, but they do.
My totally original dating advice is this: move out of hellhole countries where everyone hates you.
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
The problem is when a man has his life dismantled because of a few words spoken to the wrong person. This has happened several times to me in my life, at a small scale but it was scary enough at the time that I still have psychological problems related to it. Why should I have my life ruined just to spare a woman a few minutes of discomfort?
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
So where, pray tell, is a guy allowed to make a pass at someone without it becoming an international scandal?
Developing countries.
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
I count until I get 52, and then I stop. Make sure to account for jokers though.
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
Five of the six stories has a person being dehumanized
In the sixth story, nuclear power is dehumanized.
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
Do you have any concerns about the volatility of wind and solar, or the difficulty of storing energy?
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
I thought Paul Pelosi's attacker was a gay lover/drug dealer.
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
Does the BDSM include a category for people who like to be tied up and called mean names?
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
I think if you could look into people's hearts, a lot of people want to kill a lot of people.
gosouthyoungman
1yr ago
So when I was bullied in high school, was I being exterminated? If I can identify the right victim group that I'm a part of, will I be allowed to use this kind of rhetoric?
Imagine the top 0.01% of horrible-to-be-around-ness.
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