benjaminikuta
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benjaminikuta
1yr ago
I mean, of course nice things are nice, nobody wants to be poor. But I've always lived pretty frugally. But I assume a woman would probably not want to, so that maybe doesn't even matter anyway.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
So my advise is, get into a Bachelors in whatever you think you have the aptitude for, perhaps consider a Masters if you don't find a well-paying job straight away, and use that time to expose yourself to women your age with the traits you desire.
That would be ideal, but like I said, I lack the discipline or whatever.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
You raised concerns of delaying having kids later being bad because of aging related degradation of your seminal genetic material, which honestly isn't that big a deal for men.
The primary concern is the age of the mother. Maybe I could marry someone much younger, but that comes with its own set of issues, and the vast majority of women marry someone within only a few years of them anyway.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
I've had no luck lately.
Twenty six. Only a few odd jobs.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
I've been having no luck lately.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
The website seems to have mangled my post a little lol. I meant to say I'm twenty six, not one.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
- I'm in Lviv now, but I'm returning to the US soon. None.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
What other forums do you post on?
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
How hard would it be to marry someone much younger, anyway?
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
Anyway, perhaps it could be somewhat of a tradeoff insofar as it's like, settling into a safe but suboptimal career earlier on as opposed to continuing to explore or trying harder things.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
I have the whole rest of my life to do whatever, but I specifically need to start a family within the next decade or so if I'm to avoid the risks of geriatric pregnancy, unless I marry someone much younger.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
What career should I pursue? I seem to lack the discipline or whatever for university or other such independant tasks. How much does having a good career matter for getting a good wife? I'm worried at the rate I'm going I'm running out of time.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
How's your preparation coming along? How much cold weather backpacking have you done so far?
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
Meet me at the Bay Area Secular Solstice! = D
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
Well, I also use a lot of toilet paper.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
Well, that's also a weird thing. I've noticed Ukrainians sometimes don't put their toilet paper down the toilet, but I always do, and I've never had a problem except in America.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
Interesting!
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
I came as a humanitarian volunteer, but I haven't been doing much lately, so I'm going back to the US soon.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
No, even with the old ones.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
Sorry if this is culture war. It didn't occur to me at first.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
Ukrainian toilets are so much better than American toilets. I've literally never clogged one. Except one in Balakliya that was a different kind. Isn't it interesting how there are different types of toilets? I wonder why.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
Idk why you guys find that so necessarily implausible? Self confidence is a thing.
benjaminikuta
1yr ago
Anybody feel like telling a few stories about how the housing market might get better over the next couple years? I'm having a hard time seeing it and most people are more inspired by predicting doom than imagining the subtle signs of what an improving market would look like.
It's interesting how this could refer to prices going in either direction. Like, it would mean the opposite if said in 2008. I guess good just means not too volatile in either direction?
A variety of jobs, what's your point?
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