TheDragonflysApprentice
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This is a weird question, simply because my default state has been single and happy for the past 10 years. This is mainly because I delt with fairly time intensive nightly health treatments (dialysis) for 5 of those years, which made it difficult for me to date. Now I am almost too comfortable single to think I could date successfully.
It really amounts to two things: be happy with who you are (or be working toward someone you would be happy being), and have fulling hobbies and/or career. Of course, this same advice roughly applies when you have an SO as well.
As for myself: I regularly travel, either to explore a city or an outdoor area (I'm visiting NW Georgia right now for backpacking), hike, and have/had a fulfilling job.
Fortunately, got a cadaveric kidney transplant. Technically my second transplant, after losing the first after 10 years. The waitlist where I live is one of the shortest in the country, so it "only" took about 5 years after getting on dialysis.
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